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What I wish I knew as a learner driver

By Lana Monteleone
18 May, 2026
5 min

Learning to drive is a big milestone, and sometimes, it can feel pretty stressful. Here are a few helpful tips to help you feel a little less alone, and a little more confident.

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  • Learning to drive gets easier. Hours of practice in different conditions helps hone your skills and increase your confidence.
  • Looking a few cars ahead means leaving a wide enough gap to identify and respond to hazards.
  • Don’t treat your car as a storage unit. It can open you up to hazards, theft and decreased fuel efficiency.
  • Your car insurance doesn’t need to be the same as your parents’. Focus on understanding what’s right for you.
  • Impatient people on the road will always exist. Don’t engage, avoid them, and focus on your own safety.

It does get easier

I can still remember it. L plates up in my mum’s blue Toyota Corolla, trying to recall which pedal’s the brake and which is the accelerator, pressing my foot down and thinking “wow, this thing feels HEAVY”.

I got started in a local university carpark, largely empty because it was a Sunday, with my dad instructing me to turn, break, breathe, and repeat, until manoeuvring the car felt more natural. As I attempted to “not brake so harshly” I became acutely aware of how much I was sweating and how much I wished I could fast-forward to when driving would feel easy.

The good news? After 120 hours of supervised driving practice, it did get easier. Every lesson, every mistake I learned from, helped me become a better driver. So now, many years later, here are some pearls of wisdom to help you, dear learner, feel a little better about getting started.

Look a few cars ahead

When I first heard this advice I thought, “What do you want me to do? Develop X-ray vision to see through the car in front of me?!”

Rather than developing supernatural eyesight, what this phrase actually means is allowing enough space between you and the car in front to be able to scan the lanes around you and read the road ahead. Allowing a safe distance means travelling 3 seconds behind the vehicle in front of you, to allow enough reaction time to help avoid a crash.

So, if you can’t see anything but the car in front of you, that might be your signal to ease off a bit and allow a greater gap.

Eye contact is important

There are times when eye contact can make all the difference to improving traffic flow and minimising frustration; and I don’t mean the eye-contact you make with the hottie at the bar. This is far more practical.

A key example is merging into another lane in bumper-to-bumper traffic. Along with obeying the road rules and using your indicators, you can attempt to make eye contact with another stationary driver to ensure they can see your indicator and will let you in once traffic moves again. A little nod or wave typically follows, indicating you’re good to slot in.

It might not be quite the same as achieving eye-contact at the bar, but it does provide a warm fuzzy feeling of comradery on the road.

Your car is not a storage unit

New wheels, new storage space? Resist the urge! Beyond packing for road trips or holidays, your car is not a place to store your possessions on an ongoing basis. It’s a no-go for a few reasons:
 

  • Heat can be a hazard. Car temperatures can rise quickly, especially in summer. Extreme heat can cause some items — like aerosol cans or lithium-ion batteries — to explode or malfunction.
  • Opportunistic thieves. Leaving valuable items in your car, like a phone, tablet or laptop, particularly where people can easily see them, may increase your vulnerability to theft.
  • Extra weight, extra petrol. The more weight you have in your car, the more fuel it takes to keep the car moving. In fact, research suggests every 10% reduction in vehicle weight can result in 5 to 8% greater fuel efficiency1.

Your car insurance doesn’t need to be the same as your parents’

When it comes to car insurance, everyone’s needs are different. The policy someone else has may not be the same policy you choose, and that’s totally fine. What’s important is understanding what kinds of cover options are available, and what it means for you.
 

  1. Read the Product Disclosure Statement (PDS): The PDS is your insurance roadmap. It describes what’s included in your insurance policy, what’s not, and when. It’s all well and good to have ChatGPT explain a cover type to you, but it can miss key details specific to your insurer. To really know what you’re covered for, you should do the reading yourself.
  2. Understanding what personal injury insurance is: There’s one type of insurance in Australia that’s a non-negotiable for all registered vehicles, and that’s compulsory Third Party Insurance (also known as Green Slip or MAI). In some states, it’s automatically included in your rego; in others, it’s not. For more on this, see: How CTP works in Australia.
  3. Knowing which policies cover your car and which don’t: Generally, Third Party Property Damage and Third Party Fire and Theft policies, won’t cover collision damage caused to your vehicle if you’re at fault. It’s only in specific circumstances — you guessed it, when it is stipulated in the PDS — that your car’s damage might be covered. Comprehensive car insurance policies, on the other hand, can cover damage caused to your car, as well as other people’s property, in the event of an accident. Every policy has its limits and exclusions, so always check the relevant PDS to know for sure what is and isn’t covered.

Dealing with impatient people on the road

This is true not just for your learning days, but for your Ps and beyond. Unfortunately, there will always be people who are impatient and aggressive on the road. They need to chill and leave earlier next time; but that’s beyond your control. If someone is being aggressive, here’s what you can do:

  1. Don’t engage. Avoid aggressive hand gestures, brake-checking (slamming on the brakes), or cussing them from your window. It achieves nothing positive and can only escalate the danger of the situation.
  2. If possible, let them pass. Move to another lane if it’s safe to do so to get out of their immediate vicinity.
  3. Stay in your car. Lock your doors and keep your windows up if someone gets out of the car to intimidate or confront you.

Remember, if you’re feeling threatened or unsafe, call 000 for an emergency.

Practice as much as you can in different conditions

Do it all: heavy traffic, light traffic, urban roads, rural roads, in the wet and in the dry. Different weather can change the way you need to drive, and different roads carry different requirements, too. As you journey along in different conditions and locations, remember: there’s no silly questions when you’re learning. Ask what you need, follow instructions carefully, and remember the phrase ‘practice makes perfect’ is a cliche for a reason.

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1 Brooke, L., & Evans, H. (2009). Lighten up! [vehicle weight]. Automotive Engineering International, 117(3).

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